i had him since i was a baby. he was really old but he died cause of cancer. but i feel so bad because i wasn't there. the last time i saw him was a few days ago when i patted him on the head cause i was leaving to go to my friend's house. my mom had him put to sleep earlier today and i didn't find out until a few hours ago. it makes me so sad to think about how he died in the vet's alone because i wasn't there for him. i just stopped crying to write this because i have no one to talk to and i'm so depressed and i dont know what to do?: (
Everyone who loses a pet has regrets about not spending enough time with the pet or some other 'what if "or" I should have "that causes guilt. I lost my dog to cancer 27 years ago when I was 15 and I still feel guilty for being irritated with her the night before she died because she kept making noise and keeping me awake. You feel bad because you loved your dog so much. I guess you take that as a good thing instead of a bad thing. Your dog obviously knew you loved him and that's what you have to remember.
That sounds so sad. I feel your pain. It's burns so deep. Your dog sounded like a valiant companion to you and that you felt the same to him, but please don't be sad. Your dog is in a better place now, and I'm sure he's enjoying his exciting new life above. He's happy I'm sure of it and I'm confident you'll be able to see his beloved face again one day. I hope you can get through this hard grievence in your life and if you need me I'll be waiting for you.:)
It's ok to mourn the loss of your pet. You will experience many feelings over a period of time that could last weeks . Just reflect on the good times you had with your dog and go through the process. It's natural and healthy for you to go through this. You will feel better over time. It might even help you to talk about your pet with someone who will listen. You need to grieve and not be ashamed. Hope this helps and I feel for you.
Aww sweetie, I'm sorry. I know you are hurting but please know that the last few minutes of your dog's life does not negate the entire years of wonderful times that you had together. He is out of pain but you are not. Take care of yourself right now and when you are ready, make a nice little journal or powerpoint presentation of all the good times that you did have together.
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It's hard losing a pet. But there is not much you can do. Try to focus on the good times you spent together. Then do something else, hang out with a friend to try to take you mind off of it.
You may be down-in-the-dumps for a while, but that is completely normal.
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this happened to my cat, i had him since i was little and he died of the swine flu ..... i loved him so much and still miss him to this day. Try to remember the good times you had with your dog. i hate saying this but ..... you'll forget about him ...=(... dont tell me you wont because you will ... be strong and confide in your gaurdians or friends .... im sorry for your loss .....=(
AWW! i's so sorry! that sounds really rough and it seems like its really sad and hurting you. Please dont blame yourself, he's up in heaven now, and can see what really happened. You werent at fault at all. i can really relate. my dog died when he got ran over and i saw it happen. I know you were a great parent to your dog!
Its ok I understand how ya feel. Two weeks ago I went to feed my boxer. And she wouldn't get up she just whined. Her back was messed up badly. And I wasn't there when they put her down. She was abused b4 I got her. And I was her only friend. I still cry. But now he's not in pain he aint sick nomore just like diamonds not. Only time will help . And the advice u receive here hopefully. I'm so sorry really I am.
Dont worry.
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Its not your fault at all and your dog is at peace now.
Stop worrying about those last few mintutes of his life and remember all the good things he has had.
My dog got put down and it really is the nicest way it can happen. They just kind of dose off into a sleep.
You will be okay and im very sorry for your loss
xoxo im sure you were a wonderful owner and that your dog had a good life
You will be alright. My dog died when i was in 3rd grade and i loved him like a brother ... the day he had to get put down was like the world all of a sudden ended ... Today though i have finally gotton over it and moved on. But he will still always be in my mind forever.
i had a really old dog also he was my buddy loved him to death he got old and he died and i was depressed for years and i still think about him and miss him alot just try to do something else to keep death and all this crap outta your mind thats what i gotta do if im not busy doing something i cant stand it
