i get really bad nightmares sometimes and last night was the worst in awhile and i accidentally kicked my poor little kitty off my bed and my beds pretty close to a wall so she hit the wall. Me n my kitty had a great relationship and i feel SO SO bad for what happened becuase i would never intentionally hurt her. I didnt even know i had kicked her until she made a really sad sounding meow and i looked down and she was huddled in a ball shaking. I thought she would have just been shaken up so i put her in her bed in the laundry and left it until the morning. I checked on the this morning and she HATES me she hissed at me when i went to pick her up and as soon as i picked her up she was still shaking and it was kinda like she played dead in my hands she closed her eyes and just went limp she wont even look at me and she usually gives me heaps of kisses and as soon as i put her down she curls back into a shaking ball and waits until i leave and goes away somewhere to hide its making me really sad. When i pick he up she makes a small meow sound like she doesn't want me to pick her up because shes scared. I took her to the vet to see if she was physically ok and the vet said she was fine just very shaken up. I finally found her hiding in a dark corner so i have put her in the bed but shes so scared she hasnt moved for hours: (what am i going to do this has really made me feel so upset and guilty even though it was an accident.
She's just shaken up, and a little confused and heartbroken because she loved you so much and her trust is broken. She will trust you again but you need to earn it. Start to repair the relationship quickly, as cats can get into habitual behaviour without really knowing why very easily.
pets question and answers,www.5d2d.com Don't make direct eye contact with her. If you do, slow blink your eyes to show you're not a threat and look away. Don't wake her if she's sleeping.
If she's scared of you, don't force the issue in picking her up - frightened cats can attack. Offer her some of her favourite treats, Let her taste some, and then try and coax her to you. If she takes the food from you, give her a small stroke, but stop before she gets uncomfortable. When she's a little less withdrawn, try playing with her with a fishing rod toy. Or offer her some catnip to excite and distract her. Use a soft, calm voice to talk to her. Get her associating good memories with you again and she should soon get over her trauma and trust you again. Just give her time and space.
Hope she's feeling in a forgiving mood soon!
Give here a spacial treat or buy her a toy and tell her you love her and you didn't mean to hurt her. Then she will probably trust you and know you didn't mean to hurt her.
Hm ..... Try giving her a lot of love. If she hisses at you, just hold out your hand, maybe with a treat in it, and she might come to sniff it and you could pet her. Get her gradually more comfortable with you, and she should be fine.
My advice is take it slow. Don't try to force it or you'll just upset her more. Give her treats, pet her without picking her up, get her to associate you with good things again.
AHH TEH KITTAY SCARED OF YOOH
today happen something similar to me, I accidentally hurt my dog, then when i tried to touch her she ran away , i was sad at first, then i gave her, her favorite food=) and now she lets me touch her, but idk if its the same with cats, sorry i dont have one
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but try to give her, or he something he like and then try to touch him, she:)
i think that they when accidents like that happen
