picking on the other one and there both long haired cats about the same age around three. its really bad what can i do.
That's sad. Try to have separate litter boxes and make sure the ones that is picked on her box is way from the picker. Make sure the food dishes and water dishes are way for each other. I suggest get some treats and sit in between them and pet both of them and tell them how nice they are and give them treats. Repeat it till you see change. Make sure you give all of them equal attention, maybe the one that's getting picked is the one you give more attention to. You can also go to pet shop and get this plug in thing that releases great smell and calms the cats down , it really works. Obviously the picker is the dominant one and she found her to pick on just because she is the quite and nice one. I hope everything works for you. I hope I helped, and I wish you good luck
I've found getting cats to play together and eat together helps. Put their bowls next to each other when they eat (if they don't hiss or growl). If it breaks out into a fight, don't scold them - just make a loud noise (clapping or something).
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Then try a toy that both of them can play with together - I have good luck with laser pointers or a toy on a string. Sometimes the cats are so distracted they forget they don't like the other one. If there's fighting while play, try playing with them with one on each side of a door (with the door closed).
Are you sure it's not just play? My cats wrestle pretty aggressively (sometimes putting their ears back and charging at each other) but it's just playing.
