My cat Simba keeps trying to do perverted things with his sister Sadie and its making very mad. She is spayed so she cant have babies and we got her spayed as soon as she was old enough so she doesnt know why or what he's doing but she cant get him to stop and neither can I. I will push him off of her, and yell, and tell him no, and i even patted him on his side near his butt, but he waited for me to turn my head and he jumped on her and started trying to do things with her again. I really dont know what to do, all i know is thatits wrong. Please if you have a heart, help me!

my dogs do the same thing i guess its in there nature? uh use a spray bottle, animals hate it. if you dont have one just like empty a windex bottle but mak sure you wash it n stuff. and just spray it everytime it starts to do it. it will eventually learn

You don't say if HE is neutered or not. If he's not, just get him done.

He is only doing what is natural. The only way to get him to stop is to get him fixed too.

It isn't "wrong" it is nature.

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As small kittens, long before they are sexually mature, cats begin to play at sex. They are rehearsing all the "motions". This is hardwired into them.

So this starts young.

Once a male cat reaches adolescence this behavior will become a drive, no longer a game. He will feel compelled to do this. If the cat is neutered the behavior will probably decrease significantly but may very likely continue to some extent because it has become an established habit. And you are not going to break him of it.

Simba has no concept of "perverted" and nor does Sadie. If both were intact they would in fact mate when they were old enough!
As brother and sister they have been playing and interacting for all their lives and know each other very well. Simba knows when to back off when Sadie is annoyed enough.

What is no doubt bothering you is that Sadie doesn't much care. If it bothered her enough she would would be growling, hissing, and snarling. Instead she is probably annoyed at most if not merely bored.

You need to get your human feelings out of this. They are cats acting like cats and neither of them is being harmed.

Get Simba neutered if you haven't already done so. This may decrease the humping behavior. No matter. He should be neutered anyway.

Then please just ignore them. Whatever you do do not attempt to punish either of them. They aren't doing anything "wrong".

Take him and get him neutered.
And quit yelling and hitting him. You are only going to cause both cats to become stressed.
They are animals. They are not perverted. Sexual perversion is a human concept. I'd hate to see your reaction to two male dogs mounting each other. Mounting is a dominance issue not a sexual issue.

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Has he been neutered? If not, get it done in the morning. Problem solved!

40 years of being owned by cats and 30 years of fostering kittens